AUTHORS: BEATTY & ELLIOT COHAN
Learn Their Secrets!
For
Better for Worse Forever-Discover the Path to Lasting Love is the only
relationship book that you’ll ever need to read to discover how to assess who’s
right or wrong for you
BEFORE committing to any serious relationship like a marriage. When you
follow the Cohan’s 10-step fail-safe formula, you will finally be able to hit
the relationship jackpot. Thousands of men and women have successfully used this
formula and all agree that “it’s like having psychotherapist BEATTY COHAN in
your purse or wallet, taking you by the hand, guiding you through your
relationship journey and keeping you safe!
Rate Your Mate Before It Is To Late- Learn the Cohan’s 10-step, fail-safe formula that will change the way you look at relationships forever. It may even save your life!
Rate Your Mate Before It Is To Late- Learn the Cohan’s 10-step, fail-safe formula that will change the way you look at relationships forever. It may even save your life!
Hooking up and breaking-up is the theme song these days for relationships (married or not). But instead of merely lamenting this sad reality, the real questions are twofold: Why is this happening? And more importantly, what if anything, are we prepared to do about it?
A Tragic Trend!
Half of all first marriages today will end in divorce tomorrow.
Sixty percent of second marriages will fail. That number will
escalate in the third or more marriages. What are the reasons for
this national tragedy whose consequences have devastated children’s
lives and struck fear of marriage into the hearts and minds of adult
children of divorce? The explanation for this contemporary calamity
lies in the mythical belief that love and romance conquer all
adversity. Also, how many people were fortunate enough to have
positive role models for parents to teach them about healthy love
and relationships?
Blinded by romance, people frequently marry someone who they
really don’t know. Finally, if we don’t know what ingredients go
into a healthy, long-lasting relationship and if we rely on
misleading portrayals of love in movies, television and popular
music, how can we then expect to be able to assess who’s right or
wrong for us? The reality is that we can’t and we don’t.
We spend more time researching cars, grams of fat and real estate
than we do our partners. Think back to how you often thought you
knew everything there was to know about him/her. You believed that
the person you were in love with was exactly whom he/she seemed to
be. You were sure that you had found your life partner and perfect
match. Then suddenly without warning you realize that you are headed
for disaster.
Your relationship is in shambles. Your mind is spinning. What went
wrong? Chances are the signs were there all along. You just didn’t
know what to look for. How many times have you heard the
post-marital lament, “If I’d only known what he (or she) was really
like, I’d never have married her).”
The 10-Step Fail-Safe Formula That Will Change the Way You Look at Relationships Forever. This formula is based on Beatty and Elliot Cohan’s book, ‘For Better, For Worse, Forever-Discover the Path to Lasting Love’
- Predicting the Future: Family Background. Take a close look at your partner’s parent’s relationship to get a good idea of what you might expect from him in the future.
- Lurking Around the Corner: You will learn to recognize the signs of alcohol and other kinds of substance abuse. Abuse of any kind, including verbal, physical or emotional must never be tolerated.
- More Skeletons Lurking: You will learn to identify the signs and symptoms of clinical depression, anxiety and other psychiatric problems. These problems are often invisible to the untrained eye and ear and are major obstacles to a successful love connection.
- Listening Carefully: Did You Hear What I Said? Everyone talks about the importance of communication. How well (or how badly) you and your partner are able to express emotions like love, fear, disappointment, anger and pain will make or break your relationship.
- The Art of Compromise: Problem- Solving: is the most crucial of the key ingredients. It is essential to discover your partner’s attitude and level of skill in dealing with conflict and compromise early on in your relationship.
- Imitating Intimacy: Once and for all you will become very clear about the differences between lust and love.
- Lovemaking: the Agony and the Ecstasy. Education, information, communication and chemistry are the key to a successful and exciting sex life.
- Old Baggage: Unless your partner (and you) truly understands what part he played in why previous relationships failed, you may find him reacting to the past rather than to you in the present.
- Deal Makers, Deal Breakers. When it comes to making a deal with a new partner, be honest with yourself. What values can you accept? What can’t you accept? Find out how compatible you are intellectually and educationally. Do you share similar goals, values, religious beliefs, interests, views about money, children, politics and careers?
- Being Realistic: There’s No Such Thing as the Perfect
Partner. If your partner is skilled in the most important of the
ten key ingredients and you share good chemistry, look carefully
at the compromises you might have to make. Certain compromises
and trade-offs are okay to make, but certain situations should
never be tolerated under any circumstances.
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